Talking about sex
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Children are fascinated by bodies, their own and other peoples. We need to allow them to satisfy their curiosity in a safe way rather than picking up weird and wild ideas from other children. Most parents are keen that their children learn some of their own values in relation to sex, marriage and relationships so it is important that they are taught some basics before school where there is always another child willing to impart their own version of how babies are made.
Naturally parents make their own decisions about what they tell children about sex and there are a number of useful books in the contacts & books section. The earlier they learn about them the easier it is for adults to teach them. The most important aspect of informing children about sex is that if they KNOW what is right they will also know what is wrong, making it easier to tell if something untoward happens to them. If there is some emphasis about 'rules' about sex it helps children to understand e.g. Sex is only allowed between adults who both agree to it. Children readily understand that there are activities for adults only eg, driving.
If children learn that it is OK to talk about and ask questions about sex and bodies they will also know that it is OK for them to talk about sexual assault.
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Copyright Updated: 15 Feb 2010
The South Eastern Centre Against Sexual Assault acknowledges the traditional Aboriginal owners of country throughout Victoria. We pay our respects to them, their culture and their Elders past, present and future.